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Sensitivity and respect in your comments

Many photographers upload pictures of people for comment on photo sharing websites. I think it is important to point out that comments made on a picture are often read by the person in the picture.

On the whole I think that most people commenting on a picture do show respect and awareness of the subject's feelings and emotions. However sometimes a comment is made that reveals a lack of regard for the person in the image.


Classic examples are comments which turn an attractive woman or man into a sexual object, or mock, trivialise or patronise the subject.


Even if the person in the photograph will almost certainly never see the comments made on their image, I believe it is of fundamental importance that comments are respectful and that you only say what you would be prepared to say looking that person straight in the eye.


The internet is vast and people on your screen can appear somewhat abstract and removed from the real human being, but each person you see in a photograph has a life, aspirations, hopes, fears, relationships, experiences and feelings just like you or I.


Of course the respect for a person's feelings and dignity does not only apply to commenting on pictures of people, it is also fundamental to the ethics of photography. When we lift our cameras to take a picture of another person we have to be aware of their humanity, the ethics of what we are doing and our subject's right to dignity and respect.


I'm sure the people reading this share my feelings and as usual I'm preaching to the converted, but hope that you will appreciate me putting the focus on this subject, which is not often touched upon in blogs and articles.


Cheers,

Paul

indigo 2 photography

Comments

Beau A.C. Harbin said…
I could not agree more with your comment. Sometimes I post images of family members to my blog because I am proud of the technique used or how they came out. I would be quite unhappy if someone made fun of a loved one. Maybe I should not post them to avoid the issue, but on the other hand, I am open to critique of the shot itself. Anyway, good to remember our manners in all things.
Anonymous said…
OBVIOUSLY! But then if you are gonna critique a piece of art, you should refrain from any snarkyness, period.
Unknown said…
That's the curse of the internet - the anonymity allows people to be cruel when they (probably/hopefully) would not be like that in real life.

Put some people behind the steering wheel of a car and they turn into monsters and all the frustrations of their life manifests itself in road rage. For those without a steering wheel and car, the keyboard and computer screen does just fine!

Alan

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